Most parents in the US still play along with the “tooth fairy” story to try to deflect angst away from the loss of baby teeth in their young children. We did that as well. I can remember when Quinn lost his first tooth. Oh what a monumental occasion. Each loss of a baby tooth was heralded and of course it took a while to cajole the little tooth out of their mouth (usually hanging by a thread).
What has been interesting to me is the progression of this from our first child Quinn to our fourth child Maggie. For the Quinn, we spent a week trying to prepare him for the loss of that first tooth, just watching and waiting. We would carefully place the tooth and provide the dollar (going rate in our house) under the pillow for the next morning. This routine was repeated for each tooth and was largely the same for Hayden, but without as much hoopla. Emma was so fearful of losing a tooth, but that was sort of short circuited by the extraction method. Even though Maggie was two years younger (and probably only 2 at the time), she was the catalyst for Emma losing 3 of her teeth. Once to a kick and twice to punches (not in a real fight, but just the rough housing of the girls).
Now with Maggie, we have come full circle. She usually has to tell us that she’s lost a tooth. She will work it and work it until she can pop it out herself. We generally don’t even know the process is going on until she presents the tooth along with a view of her teeth and the missing space highlighted. The sad thing is that the tooth fairy doesn’t have any cash these days. We generally don’t carry cash around (which a whole other post) and so we have to “borrow” from Quinn to allow the tooth fairy to deposit the dollar under her pillow (or on the dresser). To make matters worse, this is usually halfway through the next day when we realize that we shirked our duty.
I kind of feel sorry for Maggie getting the “tooth fairly lite” routine. I wonder if she will continue the story with her own children. I guess it’s really not that big of a deal as the stories only purpose is the help the process along and Maggie didn’t need any help with that. She just wanted to get paid.